It’s my birthday coming up, and this year I’m turning 32, so I decided to do a list of thirty-two places I’d like to visit in the North. This is not a list of things I’m going to do in the next year, as a sort of checklist, some of these are pie-in-the-sky dream places I want to go, whilst others are more attainable and I have concrete ideas and plans to actually do. So, that being said here’s my list of things I’d like to do in the North, just to illustrate how many things there are to do, and how amazing this region is!
Go to Whitby Goth Weekend
The next Whitby Goth Weekend is from 30th October – 2nd November 2025.
“Join us as we journey through the ever shifting tides of unconventional culture, and immerse yourself in our delightfully dark domain, for here, the pulse of Alternative and Bohemian lifestyle thrives, waiting to captivate your soul. Unveil a tantalizing tapestry woven together with threads of Music, Literature, Fashion, Artists, Events, and the pursuits of Friendship and Freedom. Our solemn quest is to exalt the realm of Goth & Alternative Subcultures, and to weave a unifying cloak that envelopes the reverent hearts of Alternative and Bohemian Communities across the globe.”
If you’ve ever been to Whitby during the Goth Weekend when you’re not a Goth, it’s like being in another world. In case you didn’t know, there’s so many different types of Goth – not just the stereotypical image of head-to-toe black like a Victorian mourner. Yes, that is definitely as type of Goth look, but there is also steampunk, romantic goth, cyber goth, emo, pastel goth, gothabilly, bohemian goth… to be honest, the list could go on! So, when you go to Whitby, and see all of the amazing clothing and aesthetics that people wear is stunning. I specifically don’t call the “costumes,” because yes whilst some goths do don specific costumes when they attend events like this that might reflect a certain character, for most this is their day-to-day clothing. It’s not a costume, it’s their clothes. And they look incredible. The time and effort that goes into some of these pieces and these looks is mind-blowing.
Of course there’s plenty of Gothy things to do in Whitby as well, with the prime one being to walk up the 200 steps to Whitby Abbey, to learn about the inspiration behind Bram Stoker’s Dracula. There are old pubs to have a drink in, cobbled streets to wander down, and curio shops to browse. I can’t wait to go back.

Go to Blackpool Pleasure Beach
I went to Blackpool Pleasure Beach when I was kid, but I don’t really remember it, other than the fact that it was raining! I used to really enjoy rollercoasters when I was a teenager, (even the ones that turn you upside down), but I’m not sure I could do that anymore. I say this because when I went to RockPrest in June, I went on one of the fairground rides that swings you up high and then comes down on an arm (I have no idea what these rides are called), and as I sat there I was like “uh-oh this was a mistake,” but I managed to get that feeling under control, but it is a totally alien sensation that sends your adrenaline skyrocketing. I think it was because I hadn’t done in so long, so my body wasn’t used to it. I’d love to try it again on a rollercoaster! Also, I’ve never been on the world famous Pepsi Max (The Big One), and I feel like I should definitely give it a try!
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Ride the Settle to Carlisle Railway
This one is fairly self-explanatory, but I’d love to ride this railway through some of the most beautiful countryside in the North (and that is a steep competition). There are heritage steam trains that run on this line, and I think it would be really cool to ride through beautiful countryside on a steam train. I’d feel like I was in a Romance novel!

Each Lunch at Rogan & Co in Cartmel
Rogan & Co is a Michelin starred restaurant owned by Simon Rogan, who also owns L’Enclume in Carmel, along with other restaurants elsewhere. They pride themselves on having their own farm only a mile away from the village where they grow/raise as much of their ingredients as is possible, so they control the quality and provenance of all their ingredients. Obviously I’m a big fan of this because it significantly reduces the food miles and the environmental cost for supplying the restaurants.
This is one of those slightly pie-in-the-sky options because this is definitely on the pricey side. It’s not as pricey as eating at L’Enclume just around the corner where the lunch menu is £125pp, and the tasting menu is £200+pp. Lunch at Rogan & Co is £49 for three courses (available Wed-Sat), or £95pp for a six course tasting menu. And it looks delicious, with flavours I wouldn’t normally try and intensities I wouldn’t cook myself. Definitely something I would love to do one day, but I’m going to have to save my pennies!

Complete Parkrun at Williamson Park, Lancaster
Okay, so this is a personal goal of mine and I would not suggest to anybody who shudders at the thought of running that this is something that they should add to their lists. I used to run 2-3 times a week, but then I started a somewhat physical job, so that kind of fell off the radar. But this is still something I’d like to do, just to say that I’ve done it. I’ve got friends who do this every week, or are approaching their 150th run, which is very impressive! Aside from being something to work towards, Williamson Park is also a really pretty place to explore and be in, so it’ll be nice to do, even if I don’t do especially well with my time!
Go back to NOLA in York
I went to NOLA for my 30th birthday dinner and it was amazing. It’s a New Orleans style restaurant with a jazzy/speakeasy vibe in the heart of York, that do smaller plates so you can try lots of different things. They recommend that each person has two of the “main” plates and one side. Although if you have a slightly smaller appetite, I think that between two people you could have three “mains” and one or two sides, and still have plenty of food. If you’re hungry though, absolutely go for the two or three main plates each, because they’re delicious.
When I last went there I tried Jambalaya for the first time, as well as breaded goats cheese, whilst the friends I was with had a vast array of different dishes including Gumbo, Oysters, Mac & Cheese etc. etc. and I got to try bites from lots of them. One of the main reasons I picked it is that I had two friends joining the party who have Vegan diets and, unlike a lot of restaurants where they only have one or two V/VE options, NOLA has a whole menu page of eight different dishes for veggies and vegans, giving plenty of choice. Would wholeheartedly recommend!

So there you have it – another six out of thirty two of things I’d like to do. This is going to be a bit of a long series I guess, but there are just so many things to do around the North and if I did them all in one go (or even in three articles) it would end up being so long you’d never reach the end! If you had to pick three places to go in the North, where would it be? What should be on my list? I guarantee there will be places you love that I won’t even know about, so drop me a comment below or an email at bryony@thenorthishlass.co.uk and let me know what I should feature!
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